The First Thing to Check: How the Deed Was Held
Before you do anything else, find the most recent deed for the property. Look in the deceased's important papers, the safe deposit box, or pull a copy from the county recorder's office (most are searchable online for free).
The exact language on the deed determines what you do next. Look for phrases like:
- "As joint tenants with right of survivorship" or "JTWROS"
- "As tenants by the entirety" or "TBE"
- "As community property with right of survivorship"
- "As tenants in common"
- "As husband and wife"
- A single name (the deceased's only)
If the deed just lists two names with no qualifier, your state's default rules apply -- and they vary. Most states default to tenancy in common for unmarried co-owners, but to tenancy by the entirety or joint tenancy for married couples. The default matters enormously, because tenancy in common does not include automatic survivorship.
Scenario 1: Joint Tenancy With Right of Survivorship
This is the most common form of joint ownership between spouses outside of community property states. When one joint tenant dies, the survivor automatically owns the entire property. This transfer happens at the moment of death by operation of law, not through any court process.
What You Do
- Order certified death certificates. Get at least 3, since some institutions keep their copy.
- Prepare an affidavit of survivorship. This is a sworn statement -- with your signature notarized -- confirming that the joint tenant has died and you are the surviving owner. Some counties have a standard form. Title companies and real estate attorneys will draft one for $50 to $200.
- Record the documents. Submit the affidavit and a certified death certificate to the county recorder where the property is located. Recording fees are usually $15 to $75.
Once recorded, the public land records show you as the sole owner. You do not need a new deed -- the affidavit is the operative document. You can sell, refinance, or pass the property on to your heirs as the sole owner.
What You Do Not Need
- You do not need to open probate
- You do not need letters testamentary
- You do not need court approval
- You do not need the deceased's executor's signature on anything
Scenario 2: Tenancy by the Entirety
Tenancy by the entirety is a special form of joint ownership available only to married couples in about half the states. It works like joint tenancy with right of survivorship -- the surviving spouse automatically becomes sole owner at death -- but adds creditor protection: neither spouse's individual creditors can attach the property during the marriage.
What You Do
The process is identical to joint tenancy: file an affidavit of survivorship and a certified death certificate with the county recorder. The affidavit may specifically reference "tenancy by the entirety" but otherwise mirrors the joint tenancy affidavit.
States That Recognize Tenancy by the Entirety
Roughly half of states recognize tenancy by the entirety, including Florida, Pennsylvania, Massachusetts, Virginia, Maryland, Michigan, New Jersey, and Ohio. A few states recognize it only for certain property types (e.g. homestead only). Check what your state recognizes before assuming this is how your deed is held.
Scenario 3: Community Property With Right of Survivorship
Nine states follow community property rules: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin. In these states, most property acquired during a marriage is owned equally by both spouses regardless of whose name is on the deed.
Community Property With Right of Survivorship
Some community property states allow couples to add a right of survivorship to their community property deed. With this designation, the surviving spouse automatically becomes sole owner at death -- same as joint tenancy. File an affidavit of survivorship plus a certified death certificate with the county recorder.
The added benefit of community property with right of survivorship is a double stepped-up basis for capital gains tax purposes. Both halves of the property reset to fair market value at the first spouse's death, not just the deceased's half. This can save the surviving spouse significant capital gains tax if they later sell the property.
Community Property Without Right of Survivorship
If the community property deed does not include a right of survivorship designation, the deceased spouse's half passes through their will (or by intestate succession). The surviving spouse already owns their half outright, but the deceased's half goes through probate.
In practice, most intestate community property in community property states goes to the surviving spouse anyway. But the probate step is still required to update the public records.
Scenario 4: Held in a Revocable Living Trust
If the couple transferred the house into a revocable living trust during their lifetimes, the property bypasses probate entirely. The successor trustee (often the surviving spouse) has authority to manage and distribute the property according to the trust terms.
What You Do
- Review the trust document to confirm who the successor trustee is and what the trust says about the house.
- Prepare a trustee's deed if the trust calls for transferring the property out of the trust to the surviving spouse personally. (Some couples keep the property in the trust; others move it out.)
- Record the trustee's deed along with a certified death certificate and -- in many states -- a "certificate of trust" or "affidavit of trust" that summarizes the trust without revealing all the terms.
If the trust says the property stays in the trust for the survivor's benefit, no new deed is needed. The trust continues with the surviving spouse as the sole trustee and beneficiary.
Scenario 5: Transfer-on-Death Deed
About half the states allow a "transfer-on-death deed" (TOD deed) or "beneficiary deed." If the deceased spouse signed and recorded a TOD deed naming the surviving spouse as beneficiary, the property transfers automatically at death without probate.
What You Do
File an "acceptance of beneficiary" affidavit (form varies by state) along with a certified death certificate with the county recorder. Some states have a window (often 9 months) for the beneficiary to accept; if you miss it, the property may fall back into the probate estate.
TOD deeds are uncommon between spouses -- joint tenancy or tenancy by the entirety are more common -- but they show up when one spouse owned the property before the marriage and added the other as a TOD beneficiary.
Scenario 6: Sole Ownership in the Deceased Spouse's Name
If the deceased spouse held the property in their name only, with no co-owner or beneficiary, the property is part of the probate estate. You will need to:
- Open probate in the county where the deceased lived
- Get appointed as executor or administrator and obtain letters testamentary
- Inventory the property with the probate court
- Pay debts and taxes of the estate
- Distribute the property -- either to yourself as the surviving spouse (if the will or intestate succession says so) by recording an executor's deed
In most states, the surviving spouse is the primary beneficiary by default. If there is a will, the will usually leaves the home to the surviving spouse. If there is no will, intestate succession laws typically award the entire home to the surviving spouse if there are no children from a prior marriage, or a share (often half) if there are.
The Spousal Elective Share
Every state except a couple of community property states gives the surviving spouse an "elective share" -- a guaranteed minimum percentage of the estate that the surviving spouse can claim even if the will leaves them nothing. The percentage varies (often one-third to one-half) and the calculation can be complex. If you were left out of your spouse's will or given less than the elective share, talk to a probate attorney quickly -- the deadline to elect against the will is often only a few months after probate opens.
Scenario 7: Tenancy in Common
Tenancy in common is the worst-case scenario for a surviving spouse who is not the executor. Each owner's share passes through their own estate, not to the co-owner. So the deceased spouse's half goes through probate and is distributed according to the will or intestate succession.
If you are the surviving spouse and the deceased's will leaves their share to you, you eventually inherit through probate -- the executor records an executor's deed transferring the deceased's interest to you. If the will leaves their share to someone else (children from a prior marriage, for example), you may end up co-owning the home with that person.
Tenancy in common with a spouse is unusual but does happen -- often as a result of estate planning between blended families. If the deed shows tenancy in common, talk to a probate attorney about your options before assuming you can stay in the home.
Recording the Documents: The Practical Steps
Wherever your situation lands you, the final step is recording the right documents with the county recorder in the county where the property is located.
What to Bring
- The original prepared document (affidavit, executor's deed, or trustee's deed)
- A certified copy of the death certificate
- Your photo ID
- Recording fees (cash, check, or card -- depends on the county)
- A "preliminary change of ownership report" in states like California, used by the county assessor to evaluate property tax implications
Common Mistakes
- Wrong county -- The recording must be in the county where the property is physically located, not where the deceased lived.
- Missing notarization -- Affidavits and deeds must be notarized to be recorded.
- Wrong legal description -- The property description in your new document must match the deed exactly. Even a small typo can cause rejection.
- Wrong copy of the death certificate -- Some counties require an original certified copy and will reject photocopies.
Property Tax and Insurance: Update Both
Once the deed is updated, update two more things:
- Property tax records. Notify the county assessor that you are the sole owner. In most states, transfers between spouses do not trigger reassessment, but the assessor needs the death certificate and a brief letter to update their records. In California, file a "Claim for Reassessment Exclusion for Transfer Between Spouses."
- Homeowners insurance. Call the insurance carrier and have your spouse removed from the policy. Coverage continues, but the named insured needs to match the recorded owner.
Both updates protect you from administrative headaches later -- missed tax notices, lapsed coverage, claim denials.
How SwiftProbate Can Help
Updating a deed after a spouse dies is one of dozens of administrative tasks that pile up at exactly the time when you have the least energy to deal with paperwork. SwiftProbate organizes everything you need to handle after a spouse's death -- bank accounts, insurance policies, retirement accounts, Social Security, vehicles, real estate -- into a prioritized checklist with state-specific instructions. The deed transfer is just one task on the list, but you do not have to figure out on your own which steps apply to your situation.
This article is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. Consult a qualified attorney for guidance specific to your situation.